Quick answer

A position wedge lifts and supports your hips or back to improve alignment and access during intimacy. Use it under your lower back, hips, or knees to reduce strain and enable better angles.

Why use a position wedge?

A position wedge is a firm foam pillow that props your body at an angle. It helps you reach deeper, more comfortable positions without awkward contortions. The Sitting Pretty Position Wedge, for example, measures 13 inches long and 6.5 inches high, providing a gentle lift that aligns hips for better access.

What to watch out for

The wedge is not a soft pillow. Its firm foam provides support, but if you are used to plush bedding, the firmness may feel different. Start with a towel on top if needed. Also, the wedge is lightweight (1.07 lbs) so it can shift during active play—place it on a non-slip surface or hold it in place with your body weight.

Steps to use a position wedge for intimacy

  1. 1. Place the wedge on a stable surface: Set the wedge on your bed or floor with the tall end facing the direction you want lift. For example, under your lower back, the tall end should point toward your head. Check that the wedge is centered and won't slide. A common mistake is placing it too high or low, which can cause discomfort.
  2. 2. Position your body on the wedge: Lie back so the wedge supports your hips or lower back. If you are the receiving partner, this lifts your pelvis for better access. If you are the giving partner, the wedge can support your chest or knees. Don't place the wedge directly under your neck or head—it is designed for body support, not a pillow.
  3. 3. Adjust your partner's position: Have your partner kneel or stand at the edge of the wedge. The lift allows for deeper penetration without straining your back. Try different angles by shifting your hips slightly forward or backward. If you feel any pinching or pressure, add a folded towel or adjust the wedge position. Firm foam does not conform like a soft pillow.
  4. 4. Experiment with different positions: Use the wedge under your hips for missionary, under your partner's chest for doggy style, or under your side for spooning. Each angle changes depth and sensation. A common mistake is sticking to one position. Try at least three to find what works best for both partners.
  5. 5. Clean and store the wedge: Remove the plush case and wash it in cold water. Wipe the foam with a damp cloth if needed. Store the wedge flat or upright in a dry place. Do not machine wash the foam itself—it can break down. Always use the removable case for easy cleaning.

Product facts

  • SITTING PRETTY POSITION WEDGE: This wedge is 13 inches long, 18.5 inches wide, and 6.5 inches high, made of firm foam with a removable plush case. The 6.5-inch height lifts your hips enough to change the angle of entry without being too tall for comfort.

    SITTING PRETTY POSITION WEDGE

    SITTING PRETTY POSITION WEDGE