Quick answer
To get a blended orgasm with a dual stimulation vibrator, start by applying lubricant, then insert the G-spot arm while positioning the clitoral arm. Use the remote to adjust vibration patterns and intensity independently for each motor.
Why dual stimulation works for blended orgasms
A blended orgasm combines clitoral and G-spot stimulation for a deeper, more intense release. Dual stimulation vibrators are designed to target both areas at once, with an insertable arm for the G-spot and an external arm that rests against the clitoris. Because the arms are shaped to fit the anatomy, you don't need to readjust during play, which helps you stay in the moment.
Using a remote control gives you the freedom to change settings without interrupting the rhythm. You can independently control the two motors, so you can experiment with different combinations of vibration strength and patterns on each area.
Step-by-step guide to using a dual stimulation vibrator
- Prepare your body and toy: Clean your vibrator with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both the insertable arm and the clitoral arm. If you're new to dual stimulation, take a few deep breaths to relax. Skipping lube can cause discomfort; always use enough.
- Find a comfortable position: Lie on your back with your knees bent, or try a reclining position that allows easy access. Hold the vibrator so the longer arm points toward your back (for G-spot) and the shorter arm curves upward (for clitoris). A common mistake is inserting the wrong arm; check the curve before insertion.
- Insert slowly and adjust: Gently insert the G-spot arm until you feel resistance, then angle it slightly upward toward your belly button. The clitoral arm should rest naturally against your clitoris. If it doesn't, adjust the angle or try a different position. If the clitoral arm slips away, you may need more lube or a slight repositioning.
- Start with low vibration on both motors: Turn on the vibrator using the remote or toy controls. Begin with a low, steady vibration on both the G-spot and clitoral motors. Focus on the sensations for a minute before increasing intensity. Jumping to high power too soon can desensitize you; build up gradually.
- Experiment with independent settings: Use the remote to change the vibration pattern or intensity on each motor separately. For example, try a pulsing pattern on the clitoris while keeping a steady rumble on the G-spot. Alternate combinations until you feel a build-up. Many users find that alternating patterns prevents habituation and heightens arousal.
- Focus on your breathing and pelvic floor: As you approach climax, take deeper breaths and gently contract your pelvic floor muscles. This can intensify the sensation and help trigger a blended orgasm. Continue using the remote to maintain the ideal vibration mix. Holding your breath can reduce blood flow; keep breathing to sustain arousal.
Product facts
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Wonderlove Dual Stimulation Clitoris and G-Spot Vibrator With Remote Pink: The Wonderlove Dual Stimulation Vibrator has an insertable arm that targets the G-spot and an external arm that stays in place against the clitoris, so you never need to readjust during play. This design eliminates the common frustration of repositioning, letting you focus entirely on the sensations and build-up to a blended orgasm.
Wonderlove Dual Stimulation Clitoris and G-Spot Vibrator With Remote Pink