Quick answer
If you want a budget-friendly plug with a textured orb and flexible shaft, choose the Joy Stick. For a long, beaded, ultra-firm dildo that stays put during intense play, choose the Cowboy Firm.
Shape and intended use
The Joy Stick is a silicone butt plug with an easy-entry head, a full-feeling orb in the middle, and a stay-put shaft. Its shape is designed for targeted internal pressure and hands-free wear.
The Cowboy Firm is a long, beaded dildo built for high-intensity play. Its firm silicone provides strong stimulation along the entire shaft, and the beads add texture that you feel during thrusting.
Firmness and material feel
Both toys are made from Tantus’ 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone, which is hygienic, hypoallergenic, and boilable. However, the Cowboy Firm uses Tantus’ firm silicone blend, giving it a rigid, unyielding feel. The Joy Stick is not described as firm, so it likely offers more flexibility, which can be more comfortable for beginners or longer wear.
The firmness difference is the main trade-off: the Cowboy Firm delivers intense, precise stimulation, while the Joy Stick is more forgiving and easier to insert for those new to anal play.
Joy Stick vs Cowboy Firm: Trade-offs at a glance
- Price: Joy Stick is $13.02 (down from $21.00); Cowboy Firm is $124.60 (down from $178.00). Joy Stick is a budget-friendly option; Cowboy Firm is a premium investment.
- Shape: Joy Stick is a plug with an orb and tapered head; Cowboy Firm is a long, beaded dildo. Choose the plug for targeted pressure and wearability; choose the dildo for thrusting and length.
- Firmness: Cowboy Firm is explicitly firm; Joy Stick is not described as firm, so it is likely more flexible. Firm = intense, precise; flexible = more comfortable for beginners or extended wear.
Product facts
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Joy Stick: The Joy Stick has an easy entry head with a full-feeling orb in the middle and a great stay-put shaft. The orb provides internal pressure that many users find pleasurable, while the stay-put shaft makes it suitable for hands-free wear.
Joy Stick
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Cowboy Firm: The Cowboy Firm is made from Tantus' own unique blend of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone and is designed for high-intensity play. Its firm silicone delivers strong, consistent stimulation, ideal for users who prefer a rigid, unyielding toy.
Cowboy Firm
Which one fits you?
Best for
- Budget-conscious buyers who want a versatile silicone plug for pressure play and hands-free wear
- Users new to anal toys who prefer a more forgiving, flexible material
Not for
- Users who want a long, rigid dildo for intense thrusting and beaded texture
- Anyone who needs a toy with a very firm, unyielding feel