Quick answer

Start with the Loving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls by checking the size against your experience, then use plenty of lube and the suction base for hands-free play. Clean it before and after every use.

Why the balls and suction base change your approach

The textured balls on this dildo aren't just for looks—they add girth at the base and can provide external stimulation. That means you'll want to angle the toy so the balls rest comfortably against your body rather than press into it.

The strong suction cup base lets you attach the dildo to smooth surfaces for hands-free use, but it also acts as a safety base. Always check that the suction cup is fully sealed before you start moving.

Material matters: TPE and flexibility

TPE is a flexible material, so the shaft bends with your body instead of staying rigid. That flexibility is helpful for finding comfortable angles, but TPE is porous and requires thorough cleaning and regular replacement. If you need a material that's non-porous, this isn't the toy for you.

Step-by-step: how to use the Loving Joy 7 Inch Dildo with Balls

  1. Check the size against your experience: The 7-inch length and realistic girth are manageable for many, but if you're new to penetration, start with a smaller toy first. Measure the insertable length and compare it to toys you already use comfortably. If you feel any pain or resistance, stop and size down.
  2. Clean the dildo before first use: Wash with warm water and mild soap, then rinse thoroughly. TPE is porous, so cleaning before and after every use is essential to prevent bacteria growth. Avoid harsh cleaners or boiling—they can damage TPE.
  3. Apply plenty of lubricant: Use a water-based lube with TPE. Apply generously to the shaft and to yourself. Reapply as needed, especially if you feel friction. Silicone lube can degrade TPE, so stick with water-based.
  4. Position the suction base if going hands-free: Press the suction cup firmly onto a smooth, clean surface like a tile wall or glass table. Tug gently to confirm the seal holds before you let go. Test the suction before each session—if it slips, clean the surface and the cup.
  5. Angle the toy so the balls rest comfortably: The textured balls are designed for external stimulation. Tilt the dildo so they press gently against your body rather than dig in. Adjust the angle until it feels pleasurable, not painful. If the balls cause discomfort, try a different position or remove them from contact.
  6. Start slowly and communicate: Insert gradually, letting your body adjust. With a partner, agree on a pace and use a safe word. The flexible TPE shaft will bend with your movements—don't force it. Stop immediately if you feel sharp pain or numbness.
  7. Clean and store properly after use: Wash with warm soapy water, rinse, and pat dry with a clean towel. Store in a cool, dry place away from other TPE toys to prevent melting or sticking. Inspect regularly for tears or tackiness—replace if the material breaks down.

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