Quick answer

To use the Loving Joy Rose Licking Vibrator, apply water-based lubricant to the petals, place it over your clitoris, and adjust the intensity to your preference. Start slow and increase as you get comfortable.

Why the rose design matters

The rose shape isn't just for looks—it's designed to fit neatly in your palm, making it easy to hold during use. The soft, flexible silicone tongue under the petals mimics oral stimulation, which is why this toy has become a favorite for clitoral play.

Choosing the right lubricant

Always use a water-based lubricant with this toy. The silicone body can react with silicone-based lubes, which may damage the material. A water-based lube keeps things smooth and comfortable without compromising the toy's integrity.

Step-by-step guide to using the Loving Joy Rose

  1. Apply water-based lubricant: Squeeze a small amount of water-based lube onto the petals and tongue. This reduces friction and enhances sensation. Avoid silicone-based lubes as they can damage the toy. Check the lube ingredients to ensure it's water-based.
  2. Position the rose over your clitoris: Hold the toy in your palm and place the petals so the tongue rests directly on your clitoris. Adjust the angle until it feels comfortable and stimulating. Experiment with different angles to find what feels best.
  3. Start with the lowest setting: Turn on the toy and begin with the lowest intensity. Gradually increase as you become more aroused. This helps you avoid overstimulation. Don't rush—let your body adjust before increasing intensity.
  4. Move the toy slowly: Once comfortable, gently move the rose in small circles or up and down. This can enhance sensation and help you discover what feels best. Listen to your body—if it feels too intense, slow down or lower the setting.
  5. Clean after use: After each use, wash the toy with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Dry it thoroughly before storing. Regular cleaning keeps the toy hygienic and extends its lifespan.

Product facts

  • Loving Joy Rose Licking Clitoral Vibrator: Loving Joy’s rose-shaped design started the whole category, and this is that original: the Rose Licking Clitoral Vibrator. Under the petals sits a soft, flexible silicone tongue that licks and vibrates against the clitoris to mimic oral stimulation. This design provides targeted clitoral stimulation that mimics oral sex, making it an excellent choice for beginners exploring clitoral pleasure.

    Loving Joy Rose Licking Clitoral Vibrator

    Loving Joy Rose Licking Clitoral Vibrator