Quick answer

Apply a small amount of Pjur Backdoor Relaxing to your finger and the toy or partner, then reapply as needed. Its silicone-based formula is concentrated for longer-lasting glide, so start with less than you think and add more only when friction returns. Never use it with silicone toys unless you first test on a hidden spot.

Why this lube is different from a standard water-based option

Pjur Backdoor Relaxing is a silicone-based formula with a higher concentration of ingredients than pjur analyse me! glide. That concentration is designed for longer-lasting lubrication, which matters during anal play because the body does not self-lubricate. A little goes further, but the trade-off is that silicone lube can degrade silicone toys. If your toy is silicone, test a drop on the base first or choose a water-based lube instead.

How to prepare before you apply any lube

Start with clean hands, trimmed nails, and a towel within reach. If you are using a training kit like the Stretch Master 2 Piece Training Silicone Ass Grommet Set, decide which size you will start with before lube enters the picture. Pjur Backdoor Relaxing 30ml is a small bottle, so keep the cap nearby and avoid setting it on a surface where it can tip over. A common mistake is applying lube before you have checked toy compatibility; check first, then lube.

How much to use and when to reapply

Dispense a pea-sized amount onto your fingertip, then spread it around the anal opening and slightly inside. Add a second small amount to the toy or partner. Because this is a silicone-based lubricant, you may not need to reapply as often as with water-based options, but you should still pause and add more if you feel any drag or dryness. Do not pour a large amount at once; over-lubricating can reduce sensation and make handling a toy slippery.

Pairing this lube with anal training or vibrating toys

If you are using a vibrating toy such as the Fort Troff Uncut Thruster Mini Fuck Machine, apply lube to the shaft and to yourself. The thruster has a stroke of just under 2 inches, so the lube needs to stay put during back-and-forth motion. Silicone lube is a good match for non-silicone toys, but if the Thruster's silicone surface is a concern, test a small amount on the base first. For grommet-style trainers, lube the inside and outside of the grommet before insertion.

Step-by-step: how to use Pjur Backdoor Relaxing

  1. Check toy compatibility: Put a drop of Pjur Backdoor Relaxing on the base of your silicone toy and wait a few minutes. If the surface becomes tacky or dull, do not use this lube with that toy. Checkpoint: if you see any change, switch to a water-based lube for that toy.
  2. Warm a small amount: Dispense a pea-sized amount onto your fingertip and rub it between your fingers to warm it. Cold lube can cause a flinch that tightens the muscles you are trying to relax. Mistake to avoid: squeezing directly from the bottle onto the body, which makes it hard to control the amount.
  3. Apply to the opening and slightly inside: Spread the lube around the anal opening and just inside with a clean finger. Add a second small amount to the toy or partner before insertion. Checkpoint: you should feel slick, not wet or drippy. If it feels drippy, you used too much.
  4. Insert slowly and pause: Go slowly and pause if you feel resistance. Breathe out as you press in. The concentrated silicone formula should keep gliding, but if you feel drag, stop and add more lube. Mistake to avoid: pushing through pain. Pain means stop, add lube, or switch to a smaller size.
  5. Reapply when friction returns: Silicone lube lasts longer than water-based, but it is not permanent. Add a few drops whenever the surface starts to feel tacky or dry. Next step: after play, wash the area and the toy with warm water and mild soap.

Product facts

  • Pjur Backdoor Relaxing 30ml: pjur BACK DOOR Relaxing is a silicone-based formula with ingredients dosed at a higher concentration than pjur analyse me! glide. This concentration is why it lasts longer, so you can use less and reapply less often during vigorous anal play.
  • Stretch Master 2 Piece Training Silicone Ass Grommet Set: The Stretch Master 2 Piece Training Silicone Ass Grommet Set includes two grommets so you can start smaller and work up to the larger size. Having two sizes lets you progress gradually, and the firm yet flexible material keeps the opening pried open for a stretching sensation.
  • Fort Troff Uncut Thruster Mini Fuck Machine Rechargeable Silicone with Remote: The Fort Troff Uncut Thruster Mini Fuck Machine has a stroke of just under 2 inches and a mushroom-shaped head designed to penetrate tight holes. The shorter stroke still delivers a pounding feel, so you need a lube that stays slick through repeated back-and-forth motion.