Quick answer

Choose the Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack if you crave the dig-and-pull sensation of hair pulling; choose the Infinity Cube if you need a quiet, discreet fidget for work or travel.

Tactile input: extraction vs. manipulation

The Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack is built for sensory seekers who enjoy the specific dig, grip, pull, release cycle. Its silicone discs with embedded fibres create realistic resistance, closely mimicking the physical action of hair pulling. The Infinity Cube offers a different kind of input: a satisfying, continuous manipulation of hinged cubes that keeps hands busy without the extraction element.

Portability and discretion

The Infinity Cube is compact (83 mm x 83 mm x 30 mm) and weighs 108 grams, making it easy to slip into a bag or keep on a desk. Its quiet operation suits meetings or classrooms. The Pick ‘Em Stack, while not large, involves tweezers and loose fibres, which may be messier and more conspicuous in shared spaces.

Habit replacement: which is more effective?

For hair pulling, the Pick ‘Em Stack directly replaces the pulling motion, which many find more effective for breaking the habit. The Infinity Cube redirects the urge to a different kind of fidget, which can work if you prefer a more general hand-occupying tool. Consider your primary trigger: if it’s the sensation of pulling, the Pick ‘Em Stack may be more satisfying; if it’s just needing to keep hands busy, the Infinity Cube could suffice.

Trade-offs: Pick ‘Em Stack vs Infinity Cube

  • If you need to replicate the pulling sensation: Choose the Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack. Its resistance-based extraction closely matches the hair-pulling motion, which can be more satisfying for breaking the habit. Keep the discs and tweezers accessible when the urge strikes.
  • If you need a quiet, discrete fidget for public settings: Choose the Infinity Cube. Its compact size and silent operation make it ideal for meetings, classrooms, or travel. Store it in the box to keep it clean and ready.
  • If you want a versatile hand fidget for general focus: The Infinity Cube offers continuous manipulation that can help with focus without the mess of fibres. It’s a good all-rounder for desk use. Try both to see which keeps your hands busier.

Product facts at a glance

  • Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack - 3 Hair Pulling Discs: A set of three silicone Pick ‘Em discs with embedded fibres that create realistic resistance when pulled with tweezers. This mimics the physical sensation of hair pulling, making it a targeted tool for trichotillomania fidgeting.

    Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack - 3 Hair Pulling Discs

    Stubborn Pick ‘Em Stack - 3 Hair Pulling Discs

  • Infinity Cube Fidget - 108 grams: A large cube comprising eight hinged smaller cubes; it weighs 108 grams and comes in a storage box. Its compact size and quiet operation make it a discreet, portable fidget for work or travel.

    Infinity Cube Fidget - 108 grams

    Infinity Cube Fidget - 108 grams

Which one fits you?

Best for

  • Sensory seekers who crave the dig-and-pull sensation of hair pulling
  • People who need a targeted habit-replacement tool for trichotillomania

Not for

  • People who need a completely silent, mess-free fidget for public or shared spaces