Quick answer

If you're new to double penetration and want a realistic silicone dildo, the Brotherhood is a solid choice, but its size and dual-shaft design require preparation and patience.

Why size matters for first-time users

The Brotherhood features two shafts designed for simultaneous penetration. For beginners, the larger head and veiny texture can feel intense. Start with plenty of lubricant and go slow to avoid discomfort.

Unlike single-shaft dildos, the Brotherhood requires you to manage two insertable lengths at once. This can be a challenge if you haven't used a dildo before or if you're not used to the sensation of fullness.

Material and care considerations

The Brotherhood is made from silicone, a body-safe, non-porous material that's easy to clean with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Silicone is also compatible with most water-based lubricants, but avoid silicone-based lube as it can degrade the material.

Because silicone is firm yet flexible, the Brotherhood offers a realistic feel without being too rigid. This makes it a good middle ground for beginners who want something substantial but not unyielding.

Decision rules for buying the Brotherhood as a first dildo

  • Assess your experience level: If you have never used any dildo or anal toy, consider starting with a single-shaft dildo first to build comfort. The Brotherhood's dual shafts are more advanced.
  • Check the dimensions: Measure your comfort zone. The Brotherhood's two shafts each have their own length and girth. Compare these to any toys you've already used successfully. If you're unsure, look up the exact measurements on the product page and compare with your current toys.
  • Choose your lubricant wisely: Silicone dildos work best with water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubes can damage the surface over time. Apply generously and reapply as needed. Keep a bottle of water-based lube nearby during your first sessions.

Product facts

  • Brotherhood: Thick, realistic, and veiny, Brotherhood’s larger head leads the charge. Once in, the second… The larger head provides a pronounced sensation during insertion, which can be exciting but may require extra warm-up for first-time users.

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Who should buy the Brotherhood?

Best for

  • Users who have experience with single-shaft dildos and want to try double penetration
  • People who enjoy realistic, veiny textures and a firm yet flexible silicone material

Not ideal for

  • Complete beginners to any kind of dildo or anal play
  • Those who prefer small or slim toys with minimal texture