Quick answer
Start with a lightweight, flexible double dildo like the SHARE LITE, communicate openly, and experiment with positions that let both partners control the pace.
Why a flexible, lightweight design makes a difference
A double dildo that’s too rigid or heavy can be awkward to handle, especially for beginners. The SHARE LITE is ultra-light and made of body-friendly silicone, which means it bends with your bodies rather than fighting against them. This flexibility allows for natural movement and makes it easier to find a rhythm together.
Communication is the real secret ingredient
Even the best toy won’t work if you’re not checking in with each other. Before you start, agree on a signal for “slower” or “stop.” During play, ask questions like “Does this angle feel good?” or “Do you want more pressure?” This keeps both partners comfortable and engaged.
Step-by-step guide to using a double dildo with a partner
- Choose the right toy and prepare: Pick a double dildo that’s not too long or thick for your experience level. The SHARE LITE is a great starter option. Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, and have water-based lubricant ready. Silicone toys need water-based lube—silicone lube can damage the surface.
- Start with a comfortable position: Lie facing each other or side by side. Insert one end gently, then the other. Use your hands to guide the toy and adjust the angle until it feels good for both of you. Don’t force it—if it feels uncomfortable, reposition or add more lube.
- Move together, but let one person lead: Take turns being the one who sets the rhythm. The partner who is more experienced or has better leverage can move slowly, while the other follows. This builds trust and helps you find a synchronized pace. Switching leader keeps things balanced and lets both partners discover what they like.
- Experiment with different angles and speeds: Try adjusting the angle of your hips or the toy itself. Some positions allow deeper penetration, while others stimulate the clitoris or perineum. Vary the speed from slow and teasing to faster and more intense. What works in one position might not work in another—be curious and adapt.
- Clean up properly after play: Wash the toy thoroughly with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap. Since the SHARE LITE is waterproof, you can rinse it under the tap without worry. Dry it and store it in a clean, dry place. Regular cleaning prevents bacterial buildup and keeps the toy safe for next time.
Product spotlight
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SHARE LITE: The SHARE LITE is an ultra-light double dildo made from soft, body-friendly silicone and is 100% waterproof. Its lightweight, flexible build makes it easier to control and comfortable for extended play, and the waterproof design simplifies cleaning.
SHARE LITE
