Quick answer
Choose the Colours DP Pleasures double dildo for simultaneous internal play without a harness, or the Body Dock Elite strap-on if one partner prefers hands-free control and you want quick toy swaps.
Sensation and control: shared vs solo-led
A double dildo like the Colours DP Pleasures lets both partners feel the same toy moving between them, creating a shared rhythm. There’s no designated “wearer” — each person has one hand free to guide the toy or stimulate other areas. The trade-off is that both partners must coordinate their movements, which can take practice.
A strap-on harness such as the Body Dock Elite gives one partner full control over thrusting depth and pace. The wearer can use their hands for other stimulation, while the receiving partner can focus on sensation. The trade-off is that the wearer doesn’t feel direct internal stimulation from the toy — the pleasure comes from the power dynamic and physical connection.
Setup and toy compatibility
Double dildos are one-piece toys — no assembly, no rings, no straps. The Colours DP Pleasures is ready out of the box. However, you’re limited to the toy’s fixed shape and insertable lengths (6.1 x 1.44 inches and 5.51 x 1.29 inches). It works best when both partners can accommodate those dimensions comfortably.
The Body Dock Elite strap-on uses a patented suction docking plate rather than traditional O-rings, so you can swap in any compatible dildo in seconds. The trade-off: you need to buy at least one separate dildo to use with it, and not every dildo base will create a secure suction seal. The harness itself is adjustable with side-release buckles and padded back support for a custom fit.
Double dildo vs strap-on: trade-offs at a glance
- Shared sensation: Both partners feel the same toy moving inside them. Great for intimate, synchronized play.
- Hands-free control: The harness wearer controls thrusting without using their hands, leaving them free for other stimulation.
- Toy variety: A double dildo is a fixed shape. A harness lets you swap different dildos, but you’ll need to buy compatible ones separately. If you enjoy experimenting with different sizes and textures, a harness offers more flexibility.
- Setup time: Double dildo: unwrap and use. Harness: adjust straps, attach dildo, check fit.
- Wearer sensation: The harness wearer gets no direct internal stimulation from the toy. Their pleasure comes from the harness pressure and visual/emotional connection.
Product facts
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Colours DP Pleasures Silicone Double Dildo: The Colours DP Pleasures double dildo is cast in superior-grade silicone and measures 6.1 x 1.44 inches on one end and 5.51 x 1.29 inches on the other. The size difference lets each partner choose their preferred end, and the silicone material works with any lubricant.
Colours DP Pleasures Silicone Double Dildo
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Body Dock Elite Strap-On: The Body Dock Elite strap-on features a patented suction docking plate that holds a dildo without rings or snaps, plus adjustable side-release buckles and padded back support. You can switch toys quickly during a session, and the padded back support makes longer wear more comfortable.
Body Dock Elite Strap-On
Which one fits your couple’s play style?
Best for
- Couples who want both partners to feel the same toy internally and enjoy coordinating movement together
- Couples who prefer a simple, all-in-one toy with no setup or extra purchases
Not ideal for
- Couples where one partner wants full hands-free control and the ability to swap toys mid-session
- Couples who need a harness that fits a wide range of dildo shapes without compatibility concerns
