Quick answer
Choose the right size of a pre-tied bow tie (S for up to 2T, M for 2–5, L for 6+), then fasten it around the collar using the hook-and-loop closure at the back. Adjust the band to sit flat against the shirt, and position the bow centered under the chin.
Why pre-tied bow ties work best for babies
Traditional self-tie bow ties require dexterity and a stable collar that most babies simply don't have. A pre-tied bow tie with a hook-and-loop closure lets you get the same formal look in seconds without knots or fuss. The double-bow design stays full and symmetrical even after repeated wear.
All three bow ties from Hope & Henry use 100% organic cotton and are machine washable—handy when a baby inevitably drools or spills on the accessory. The seersucker option offers a lighter, textured fabric for warm-weather events, while the sateen provides a smoother finish for more formal occasions.
Sizing trade-offs to consider
Size S (up to 2T) is the safest bet for infants and young toddlers because the band is shorter and the bow is smaller, reducing the chance of the tie shifting or bothering the baby. Size M (2–5) works for most preschoolers, but if your child is on the smaller end of that range, the bow may look oversized. Size L (6+) is best reserved for older kids who can tolerate a larger accessory.
The hook-and-loop closure is adjustable within each size band, so you can fine-tune the fit. If the band leaves a gap or twists, the size is probably too large. Always check that two fingers can slide between the band and the neck for comfort.
Step-by-step: putting on a pre-tied bow tie
- 1. Choose the correct size: Refer to the size chart: S fits up to 2T, M fits 2–5, L fits 6+. The band should wrap around the neck without pinching or leaving a large gap. A too-large bow tie will slide or twist; a too-small one will be uncomfortable. When in doubt, size up and adjust the hook-and-loop closure.
- 2. Open the hook-and-loop closure fully: Separate the two sides of the band so the loop side and hook side are completely apart. This prevents snagging the baby's hair or clothing during placement. If the closure is only partly opened, you may have to fight with the band while the baby squirms. Always open it fully first.
- 3. Position the band around the collar: Slide the band under the baby's shirt collar, with the bow sitting at the front center. The hook-and-loop closure should meet at the back of the neck, not the side. If the closure ends up on the side, the bow will be off-center. Take a moment to center the bow before fastening.
- 4. Fasten the closure snugly: Press the hook side firmly onto the loop side. The band should lie flat against the collar without twisting. Check that you can slide two fingers between the band and the baby's neck. Too tight and the baby will be fussy; too loose and the bow will droop. The two-finger test is your best guide.
- 5. Adjust the bow angle: Gently rotate the bow so the tips point slightly outward and the double bow sits symmetrically under the chin. The bow should not cover the mouth or nose. A crooked or tilted bow looks messy. Use a mirror or take a quick photo to check symmetry before heading out.
- 6. Check for comfort and safety: Watch the baby's behavior for the first few minutes. If they repeatedly pull at the tie or seem irritated, the band may be too tight or the bow too heavy. Remove and adjust size if needed. Never leave a baby unattended while wearing any neck accessory. Remove the bow tie during naps and car rides.
Bow ties that make the job easier
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Classic Bow Tie: Classic Bow Tie – 100% organic cotton, pre-tied with a double bow and hook-and-loop closure. Machine washable. Sizing: S (up to 2T), M (2–5), L (6+). The soft organic cotton and washable fabric mean you can throw it in the laundry after a messy meal without worrying about damage.
Classic Bow Tie
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Sateen Bow Tie: Sateen Bow Tie – Pre-tied double bow with hook-and-loop closure. 100% organic cotton. Pairs with matching suiting separates. The sateen weave gives a dressier sheen, making it ideal for weddings or holiday photos while still being gentle on baby's skin.
Sateen Bow Tie
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Seersucker Bow Tie: Seersucker Bow Tie – Lightweight, textured 100% organic cotton. Pre-tied with hook-and-loop closure. Pairs with matching suiting separates. Seersucker's puckered weave stays off the skin, reducing sweat and irritation during summer events—a practical choice for outdoor ceremonies.
