Quick answer

Use the AS ONE Couples Kit by applying the intensifying gel to her before play and the prolonging gel to him, then enjoy partnered stimulation as the formulas work together.

Why the AS ONE Kit Works for Partner Play

The AS ONE Couples Kit is designed for two people who want to sync their arousal and extend their intimate time. It contains two separate gels: one that heightens her sensitivity and one that helps him last longer. Using them together means you’re both working toward the same goal — longer, more connected play.

Because each formula is applied to a different partner, timing matters. You’ll get the best results when you apply her gel a few minutes before foreplay and his gel just before intercourse or manual stimulation. This avoids rushing and lets each product do its job.

What to Expect from Each Gel

The gel for her is an intimate intensifying formula that creates gentle, warming sensations on the skin. It’s meant to increase arousal and make every touch feel more intense. The gel for him is a prolonging formula designed to help him maintain control and delay climax.

Both gels are water-based and safe to use with condoms and most toys. Start with a small amount — a pea-sized drop is usually enough — and add more if needed. Over-applying can dull sensation for either partner.

Step-by-Step: Using the AS ONE Couples Kit

  1. Step 1: Prep your space and yourselves: Set aside at least 20 minutes of uninterrupted time. Wash your hands and make sure both partners are comfortable. Have the kit within reach but keep it closed until you’re ready. Skipping the warm-up can make the gels feel less effective because your body isn’t fully aroused yet.
  2. Step 2: Apply her gel first: Squeeze a pea-sized amount of the intensifying gel onto your fingertip. Gently apply it to her clitoris or other sensitive areas. Wait 2–3 minutes for the warming sensation to build before moving to the next step. Don’t rub it in aggressively — a light, circular motion is enough. Too much friction can overwhelm the sensation.
  3. Step 3: Apply his gel before penetration or manual play: When you’re both ready, apply a similar small amount of the prolonging gel to the head and shaft of his penis. Wait about one minute for the formula to absorb. If you apply his gel too early, it may start wearing off before the main event. Time it so you’re both at the same arousal level.
  4. Step 4: Begin partnered stimulation: Start with manual or oral stimulation so both partners feel the effects of their respective gels. Her intensified sensitivity will make light touches feel more pleasurable. His prolonging gel will help him stay in control longer. Communicate openly — if either sensation feels too strong or too mild, adjust the amount next time. Everyone’s body responds differently.
  5. Step 5: Clean up after play: Both gels are water-based and rinse off easily with warm water and mild soap. Avoid using harsh cleansers on sensitive areas. Pat dry rather than rubbing. If you used a toy, clean it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Water-based gels don’t leave sticky residue, but leftover product can attract dust.

Product used in this guide

  • AS ONE™ Couples Kit: The AS ONE Couples Kit includes an intimate intensifying gel for her and a prolonging gel for him, designed to enhance arousal and extend performance. This means you don’t have to buy two separate products — the kit gives each partner a formula tailored to their role in partnered play.

    AS ONE™ Couples Kit

    AS ONE™ Couples Kit