Quick Answer
To use the My Secret Charged Plug with Remote comfortably, start with relaxation and lubrication, then insert slowly with the base facing outward, and always clean it before and after each use.
Why Comfort Matters for Anal Play
Anal play can be deeply pleasurable, but comfort is key. The anus has many nerve endings and a strong sphincter muscle that naturally tightens when you're tense or rushed. Taking your time and using the right techniques makes the experience enjoyable rather than uncomfortable.
The My Secret Charged Plug is designed with a tapered shape and a wide base for safety, but your body still needs to relax. Warm baths, breathing exercises, and a calm environment can help your muscles ease up before insertion.
Know Your Plug: Size and Shape
This plug has an insertable length of 4 inches and a diameter of 1.125 inches at the widest point, making it a good mid-size option for beginners who have some experience. The 2-inch base is wide enough to prevent the plug from going too far, which is essential for safety.
The smooth True Silicone® surface is body-safe and non-porous, so it's easy to clean. The remote control works from up to 40 feet away, letting you hand over control to a partner or adjust the vibrations yourself without reaching awkwardly.
Step-by-Step Guide to Comfortable Use
- Step 1: Clean and Prepare: Wash the plug with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Also empty your bowels and wash your hands before starting. This reduces the risk of irritation and makes insertion easier. A clean toy and body are the first steps to a comfortable experience.
- Step 2: Apply Generous Lubricant: Use a water-based lubricant and apply it liberally to the plug and your anus. Silicone lube can degrade the True Silicone® material, so stick with water-based. Reapply as needed during play. Never skip lube—it's essential for comfort and safety.
- Step 3: Relax and Start Slowly: Find a comfortable position (like lying on your side or squatting). Breathe deeply and relax your pelvic muscles. Gently press the tip against your anus and let your body adjust before pushing further. Do not force it. If you feel pain, stop and try again later. Forcing insertion can cause injury.
- Step 4: Insert and Adjust: Slowly slide the plug in until the base rests against your body. The base should remain outside at all times. Once inserted, you can turn on the vibrations using the remote or the button on the base. Check that the base is secure and not slipping inward. If it feels loose, remove and reinsert.
- Step 5: Enjoy and Control Vibrations: Use the remote to cycle through the 20 functions. Start with a low setting to get used to the sensation, then increase as you feel comfortable. You can also hand the remote to a partner for a fun interactive experience. Communication is key if you're playing with a partner—agree on a safe word or signal.
- Step 6: Remove and Clean Again: When you're done, turn off the vibrations and gently pull the plug out, using your muscles to push slightly if needed. Clean the plug immediately with soap and water or toy cleaner, and store it in a dry, cool place. Regular cleaning after every use keeps your toy hygienic and extends its life.
Product Facts
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My Secret Charged Plug with Remote: The My Secret Charged Plug features a powerful Positive® motor with 20 functions of deep, rumbling vibration and runs for 60+ minutes on a single charge. You can explore different intensities and patterns without frequent recharging, making it ideal for extended play sessions.
My Secret Charged Plug with Remote
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My Secret Charged Plug with Remote: It is made from lab-tested, body-safe True Silicone® and has an insertable length of 4 inches with a 1.125-inch diameter. The body-safe material is gentle on sensitive skin, and the moderate size is comfortable for most users, especially those new to anal plugs.
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My Secret Charged Plug with Remote: The remote control works from up to 40 feet away. You can hand control to a partner for interactive play or adjust settings without interrupting the moment.



