Quick Answer

Start with plenty of lubricant, relax your muscles, and insert the massager slowly while aiming toward your navel. Begin with the lowest vibration or flapping setting and increase gradually.

Why Preparation Matters

A prostate massager works best when your body is relaxed and you've emptied your bowels beforehand. Many beginners skip this step and end up tense or uncomfortable, which makes insertion difficult and reduces pleasure.

Use a towel or wipes for easy cleanup. Choose a quiet private time when you won't be interrupted.

Choosing the Right Settings

Devices like the Sensura and Stimulus offer multiple modes, but starting at the lowest intensity is key. The Sensura features 10 circular massaging modes, while the Stimulus includes a flapping mode with 7 intensity levels. Each sensation feels different, so try each mode for a minute before deciding what you like.

A common beginner mistake is jumping to high intensity too fast. This can cause overstimulation or muscle clenching, which works against the pleasure.

Step-by-Step Guide for First-Time Use

  1. Step 1: Prepare Your Body and Space: Empty your bowels and take a warm shower or bath to relax your pelvic muscles. Set out your massager, water-based lubricant, and a towel within easy reach. Don't skip the relaxation step—tension can make insertion feel uncomfortable.
  2. Step 2: Apply Lubricant Generously: Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the massager's tip and shaft, and also to your anus. Reapply as needed during use. Never use silicone-based lube with silicone toys, as it can damage the material.
  3. Step 3: Insert Slowly While Breathing: Gently press the tip against your anus and push inward while taking slow deep breaths. Stop if you feel sharp pain. Insert only until the base or bulb rests comfortably inside. If it hurts, stop and add more lube. Sharp pain means you're not ready.
  4. Step 4: Start on the Lowest Setting: Turn on the massager at the lowest vibration or flapping intensity. For the Sensura, use the circular massaging button to cycle through modes. For the Stimulus, use the flapping button to adjust intensity. Stay on each setting for at least 30 seconds before changing—the sensation will build gradually.
  5. Step 5: Adjust Angle and Pressure: Gently tilt the massager toward your navel to apply pressure to the prostate. Use your pelvic floor muscles to clench and release rhythmically, which can intensify sensation. Do not force the angle. If you don't feel the prostate right away, move the massager in small circles.
  6. Step 6: Clean Up Properly: After use, wash the massager with warm water and mild antibacterial soap or a toy cleaner. Dry it completely before storing. Always clean your toy before and after each use to prevent bacterial buildup.

Product Facts

  • SENSURA: The Sensura Double Penetration Prostate Vibrating Massager offers 10 circular massaging modes. These modes let you vary the sensation without removing the toy, so you can experiment to find the rhythm that works best for you.

    SENSURA

    SENSURA

  • STIMULUS: The Stimulus Prostate Massager has a flapping mode with 7 intensity levels and also provides a double penetration feature for testicle stimulation. The flapping motion targets the prostate differently than standard vibration, and the added testicle stimulation can enhance overall arousal.

    STIMULUS

    STIMULUS