Quick answer
Use the Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim by inserting the bulb end internally, engaging your pelvic muscles to hold it, and guiding the shaft into your partner. Go slow, use plenty of lube, and clean thoroughly after each use.
Why the Slim model works differently
The Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim is 10% lighter than the original, making it easier to hold and control with your internal muscles. This design gives skin-on-skin contact without needing to adjust straps or buckles during play. The natural angle of the shaft helps both partners stay comfortable.
Step-by-step guide to using the Tantus Strapless Strap On Slim
- 1. Warm up and apply lube: Start with clean hands and the toy at room temperature. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to both the bulb end and the shaft. The bulb needs to slide in comfortably, and the shaft should glide easily for your partner. Common mistake: using too little lube on the bulb. Without enough lubrication, insertion can be uncomfortable and the toy may slip out.
- 2. Insert the bulb end: Lie on your back or squat to relax your pelvic floor. Gently insert the bulb end into your vagina, angling it toward your lower back. Push until the narrow neck sits against your external muscles. The bulb should feel snug but not painful. Checkpoint: if you feel any sharp pain, stop and add more lube. The bulb should stay in place without you actively clenching.
- 3. Engage your pelvic muscles: Once the bulb is inserted, do a Kegel squeeze to see if you can hold the toy in place. You should be able to release and still feel it stay. If it slides out, try a different angle or a smaller bulb size. Common mistake: relying only on clenching. Relax your muscles between thrusts to avoid fatigue.
- 4. Guide your partner into position: Have your partner straddle you or lie facing you. Guide the shaft into their vagina or anus slowly. Communicate about depth and angle. The natural curve of the shaft helps with G-spot or prostate contact. Checkpoint: if the bulb starts to slip out, pause and reinsert. A harness can add security if needed.
- 5. Move together and adjust rhythm: Start with shallow, slow thrusts. Let your partner set the pace. As you both get comfortable, you can increase depth or speed. The strapless design lets you change positions without stopping to adjust straps. Common mistake: thrusting too hard too fast. The toy can pop out if you lose coordination. Slow and steady builds confidence.
- 6. Clean thoroughly after use: Remove the toy gently. Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Rinse well and dry with a lint-free cloth. Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Checkpoint: avoid silicone-based lubes if your toy is silicone. They can degrade the material over time.
Product facts
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Tantus Strapless™ Strap On Slim: The Slim is 10% lighter than the original model, making it lighter to hold and control. Less weight means less effort to keep the bulb in place, so you can focus on rhythm and pleasure rather than clenching.
Tantus Strapless™ Strap On Slim
