Quick answer

Choose the Small Vetti's Stinger in super soft silicone for focused, pinpoint grinding, or the Large Vetti's Stinger in soft silicone for broader, more diffuse stimulation. Your choice depends on whether you prefer concentrated pressure or wider surface coverage.

Size and firmness work together

The Small Vetti's Stinger is made in super soft silicone (0020), while the Large uses soft silicone (0030). That difference matters: super soft silicone yields more easily under pressure, letting you feel every ridge and bump with less resistance. Soft silicone is still plush but offers slightly more structure, which helps distribute pressure across the larger surface area of the Large model.

Texture density vs. coverage

Both models are loaded with texture, but the Small version packs that texture into a compact 3.6-inch base. If you like to grind in tight circles or target a small area, the Small gives you all the sensation in a concentrated zone. The Large spreads similar texturing over a 5.4-inch base, so the feeling is more dispersed — great for slow, sweeping movements.

Trade-offs at a glance

  • Small Vetti's Stinger: Super soft silicone (0020) — 3.6 in base length, 2 in height. Designed for external grinding with concentrated texture. Best for pinpoint pressure and tight grinding circles.
  • Large Vetti's Stinger: Soft silicone (0030) — 5.4 in base length, 3.25 in height. Wider surface with the same textured design for broader stimulation. Best for sweeping, expansive grinding motions.
  • Firmness trade-off: Super soft (Small) compresses easily for a gentle, yielding feel. Soft (Large) offers slightly more structure to support its larger area.

Product details at a glance

  • Small Vetti's Stinger -- Super Soft silicone -- VST-41: Small Vetti's Stinger is super soft silicone (0020) with a base length of 3.6 inches and height from base of 2 inches. The smaller footprint and ultra-plush firmness let you apply focused pressure without losing sensation, ideal for precise grinding.

    Small Vetti's Stinger -- Super Soft silicone -- VST-41

    Small Vetti's Stinger -- Super Soft silicone -- VST-41

  • Large Vetti's Stinger -- Soft silicone -- VST-38: Large Vetti's Stinger is soft silicone (0030) with a base length of 5.4 inches and height from base of 3.25 inches. The larger surface and slightly firmer silicone provide broad, even coverage that suits slower, more expansive grinding motions.

    Large Vetti's Stinger -- Soft silicone -- VST-38

    Large Vetti's Stinger -- Soft silicone -- VST-38

Which size is right for you?

Best for

  • Users who prefer pinpoint, concentrated grinding and a very plush, yielding surface — choose the Small Vetti's Stinger.
  • Users who want broad coverage and sweeping motions with a slightly more structured feel — choose the Large Vetti's Stinger.

Not for

  • Anyone seeking internal use — both models are designed exclusively for external grinding.