Quick answer

Choose the Medium Vetti's Tongue in Medium (0050) if you want a fuller sensation from the 2-inch widest shaft and need the toy to hold its shape during thrusting. Pick the Super Soft (0020) version if you prefer a gentler, more flexible feel that bends with your body.

Why the 2-inch shaft width matters

The Medium Vetti's Tongue has a widest shaft diameter of 2 inches. That is noticeably larger than the 1.3-inch tip, so the toy gives you a gradual stretch. In Medium firmness the shaft stays firm and provides consistent pressure. In Super Soft the same 2-inch width feels much plusher and compresses more easily, making it suitable for those who want a gentle fill without the rigid feel.

Usable length and how it affects positioning

With a usable length of 5.75 inches, the Medium Vetti's Tongue is a mid-length insertable. The tongue-like shape curves naturally, so the effective depth you feel will depend on how you angle it. The Super Soft version can bend along internal curves more readily, which may help if you prefer a toy that follows your anatomy rather than holding a fixed shape.

How to choose between Medium and Super Soft

  • Choose Medium (0050) if: You want the 2-inch shaft to stay firm and provide a distinct, consistent stretch. This firmness holds its shape during thrusting and gives more pronounced pressure on the G-spot or prostate.
  • Choose Super Soft (0020) if: You prefer a plush, squishy feel that compresses on insertion. The Super Soft version bends easily, making it a good match for those who find Medium firmness too intense or who want a toy that moves with their body.
  • Check your current collection: If you already own a firm toy and want something gentler, go Super Soft. If your only toys are very soft and you want more sensation, go Medium. Consider your existing silicone toy firmness before choosing.

Product facts

  • Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Medium silicone -- VT-50: Medium (0050) firmness; widest shaft diameter 2 inches; usable length 5.75 inches. The Medium firmness keeps the 2-inch shaft from collapsing, giving you consistent fullness and pressure during use.

    Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Medium silicone -- VT-50

    Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Medium silicone -- VT-50

  • Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Super Soft silicone -- VT-42: Super Soft (0020) firmness; widest shaft diameter 2 inches; usable length 5.75 inches. The Super Soft formulation makes the same 2-inch shaft compressible and flexible, ideal if you want a gentler stretch that adapts to your body.

    Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Super Soft silicone -- VT-42

    Medium Vetti's Tongue -- Super Soft silicone -- VT-42

Who each version fits best

Best for

  • Medium (0050): Users who want a firm, consistent stretch from the 2-inch shaft and prefer the toy to hold its shape.
  • Super Soft (0020): Users who want a gentle, compressible fill and a toy that bends with internal anatomy.

Not ideal for

  • Medium (0050): Those who find firm silicone uncomfortable or who need a toy that flexes easily.
  • Super Soft (0020): Those who want pronounced pressure or a rigid shape for targeted stimulation.