Quick Answer
If you prefer external stimulation without penetration, choose the Rubbies Max Grinder. If you want an insertable fantasy toy, choose the Flutter the Fae dildo.
Why the Choice Matters
Sex toys aren't one-size-fits-all. The Rubbies Max Grinder and the Flutter the Fae dildo serve completely different purposes, so the right pick depends on what kind of stimulation you enjoy and how you like to use a toy.
The Rubbies Max Grinder is a non-penetrative toy designed for external rubbing, while the Flutter the Fae is a fantasy dildo meant for insertion. Knowing the difference helps you avoid buying a toy that doesn't match your needs.
Choosing Between the Two
- Choose the Rubbies Max Grinder if: You prefer external stimulation, want a non-penetrative option, or like hands-free play with the included adjustable straps. Check that you have a flat surface or partner to help secure the straps for the best experience.
- Choose the Flutter the Fae dildo if: You want an insertable fantasy toy with a beginner-friendly size and a marbled, handmade look. Remember it's not compatible with a suction cup base, so plan for hand-held use.
- If you're still unsure: Think about whether penetration or external rubbing appeals more to you, and let that guide your choice. If you want both, consider owning one of each for different moods.
Product Facts
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Flutter the Fae Fantasy Dildo: Flutter the Fae is a beginner-friendly fantasy dildo with a total length of 6.5 inches and a useable length of 5.75 inches. This size makes it a manageable introduction to fantasy insertables without being overwhelming.
Flutter the Fae Fantasy Dildo
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Rubbies Max Grinder: The Rubbies Max Grinder is a non-penetrative toy with over 80 individual nubs for external stimulation and comes with adjustable nylon straps. The nubs and straps allow you to position it hands-free for targeted rubbing on your most sensitive areas.
Rubbies Max Grinder
Fit Guidance
Best for
- People who enjoy external stimulation without penetration
- Beginners looking for a non-intimidating fantasy toy
Not for
- People who specifically want an insertable dildo
- Those who need a suction cup base for hands-free internal play
