Quick answer
The Vamp is a long, sleek, curved realistic dildo built for deep g-spot or prostate targeting, while They/Them is a short, stout, harness-compatible dildo designed for girthy fullness without deep penetration.
Why shape matters more than length
When choosing between these two Tantus dildos, the key difference isn't just size—it's how the shape interacts with your body. The Vamp's curved shaft and ridged head are made for angled stimulation, while They/Them's short, uniform girth lets you thrust hard without hitting sensitive internal spots.
Trade-offs at a glance
- Penetration depth: The Vamp's longer shaft reaches deeper, which can be pleasurable or uncomfortable depending on your anatomy. They/Them stays shallow, so you can pound hard without risk.
- G-spot targeting: The Vamp's curved shape and ridged head are explicitly designed for g-spot or prostate contact. They/Them has no curve, relying on girth and muscle contraction for sensation.
- Harness compatibility: They/Them is explicitly harness-compatible with a flared base. The Vamp's base is suitable for harness use, but its longer shaft may limit positioning with some harnesses.
Product facts
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They/Them: They/Them is a short, stout, harness-compatible dildo made of 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone. Its short length and soft silicone let you thrust vigorously without pounding your cervix, making it ideal for deep, girthy play.
They/Them
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The Vamp: The Vamp is a realistic form dildo with a long sleek shaft and a deliciously ridged head. The curved shaft and pronounced head are designed to target the g-spot or prostate, offering intense, focused stimulation.
The Vamp
Which one fits you?
Best for
- People who want g-spot or prostate stimulation from a realistic curved dildo
- Those who enjoy deeper penetration and a pronounced head for targeted pressure
Not ideal for
- Anyone who finds deep penetration painful or wants to thrust hard without cervix contact
- Users seeking a short, girthy, harness-friendly dildo for strap-on play
