Quick answer

For anal play, water based lubricants like Nexus Slide are safe with all toys and easy to clean, while silicone lubricants last longer but can damage silicone toys. Your choice depends on whether you prioritize toy compatibility or longevity.

Key differences between water based and silicone lubricants

Water based lubricants are water-soluble, making them easy to wash off and safe for use with all toy materials, including silicone. They tend to dry out faster and may need reapplication during longer sessions.

Silicone lubricants are longer-lasting and stay slick even in water, but they can degrade silicone toys over time. They are also harder to clean and may stain fabrics.

Trade-offs at a glance

  • Water based lubricant: Safe with all toys and condoms, easy to wash off, but may dry out faster and require reapplication.
  • Silicone lubricant: Longer lasting, stays slick in water, but can damage silicone toys and is harder to clean.
  • Nexus Slide Water Based Lubricant: Thick and super slick, from Nexus, in a 150ml pump bottle for hygienic application. Best for toy compatibility and easy cleanup.
  • Nexus Relax Anal Gel: Thick, cooling anal gel with vegan ingredients. Best for enhanced comfort during anal play.

Product facts

  • Nexus - Slide - Water Based Lubricant: Nexus Slide is a thick, super slick water based lubricant designed to be long lasting and durable. It provides a natural feel and extended pleasure, but may require reapplication during prolonged anal play.

    Nexus - Slide - Water Based Lubricant

    Nexus - Slide - Water Based Lubricant

  • Nexus Relax - Anal Gel: Nexus Relax Anal Gel is a thick, cooling anal gel formulated with vegan friendly ingredients. Its cooling effect can enhance comfort during anal play, but the gel texture may not be ideal for those who prefer a thinner lubricant.

    Nexus Relax - Anal Gel

    Nexus Relax - Anal Gel

Which one should you choose?

Best for

  • People using silicone toys who need a lubricant that won't damage them
  • Those who prefer easy cleanup and are okay with reapplying as needed

Not for

  • Extended sessions where you don't want to reapply
  • Water play or shower use where silicone lube lasts longer