Quick answer

Choose the Small Xymon if you want a narrower grinder with a soft feel, or the Medium Xymon if you prefer a wider surface and firmer Near Clear silicone for more targeted pressure.

Size and surface area differences

The Small Xymon measures 8 inches long and 2.25 inches wide, while the Medium Xymon is 9 inches long and 3 inches wide. That extra 0.75 inches of width on the Medium gives you noticeably more surface area to rub against, which can feel more enveloping or allow broader stimulation. The Small's narrower profile may be easier to maneuver in tighter spaces or for those who prefer a more focused contact point.

Firmness matters for pressure and texture

The Small Xymon is available in Soft silicone (0030), which bends and squishes more easily against your body. This can feel gentler and is often preferred for grinding over bony areas. The Medium Xymon comes in Near Clear 31* silicone, which is firmer and holds its shape. That firmness transmits texture and ridges more distinctly, which some users find more stimulating. If you're unsure about firmness, consider that a softer grinder may feel less intense but more comfortable for longer sessions.

How to choose your Xymon size

  • Start with your preferred width: If you want a wider grinding surface (3 inches), choose the Medium. If you prefer a narrower profile (2.25 inches) that's easier to hold or position, go with the Small.
  • Consider the firmness you enjoy: The Small Xymon is only available in Soft silicone, which is very squishy and gentle. The Medium Xymon is only available in Near Clear, which is firmer and more textured. Your firmness preference may decide the size for you.
  • Think about your typical session length: Softer silicone (Small) tends to be more comfortable for longer sessions because it cushions pressure points. Firmer silicone (Medium) can be more intense but may feel less forgiving over time. If you tend to grind for 20+ minutes, the Small's softness might suit you better.

Product facts

  • Small Xymon -- Soft silicone -- X-607: Small Xymon is 8 inches long and 2.25 inches wide, made in Soft (0030) silicone. The soft, narrow profile makes it a good choice if you want a gentler, more targeted grinding surface that can flex with your body.

    Small Xymon -- Soft silicone -- X-607

    Small Xymon -- Soft silicone -- X-607

  • Medium Xymon -- Near Clear 31* silicone -- X-612: Medium Xymon is 9 inches long and 3 inches wide, made in Near Clear 31* silicone. The firmer silicone and wider surface provide more pronounced texture and broader contact, ideal for those who want more pressure and sensation.

    Medium Xymon -- Near Clear 31* silicone -- X-612

    Medium Xymon -- Near Clear 31* silicone -- X-612

Which Xymon is right for you?

Best for

  • People who want a gentle, squishy grinder with a narrower surface (Small Xymon)
  • Those who prefer firmer, more textured stimulation with a wider contact area (Medium Xymon)

Not for

  • If you need a very firm grinder, the Small Xymon's Soft silicone won't provide that
  • If you want a very soft, cushiony grinder, the Medium Xymon's Near Clear silicone may feel too firm