Quick answer
Start with your main goal: long-lasting moisture, gentle desensitization, a warming sensation, or a natural oil base. Each Boy Butter formula serves a different need.
Why formula texture and base matter
Boy Butter lubricants are not all water-based. The Original formula uses coconut oil, while H2O, Warming, and Desensitizing are water-based creams. The base determines how the lube feels, how long it lasts, and whether it works with silicone toys or condoms.
If you switch between formulas, note that oil-based and water-based lubes clean up differently. Water-based washes away with water; oil-based may need soap. Both are safe for latex condoms when used as directed.
Sensitive skin and ingredient awareness
If you have sensitive skin, check for additives like Benzocaine or warming agents. The Desensitizing formula contains 5% Benzocaine, which numbs sensation. The Warming formula uses a gentle heat-triggering ingredient. Both are safe for most users, but patch-testing a small amount is wise before full use.
For the gentlest option, the H2O formula includes Vitamin E and Shea Butter, which can soothe rather than irritate.
How to decide: decision rules
- You want a long-lasting, natural oil feel: Choose Boy Butter Original Formula. It is coconut oil-based, goes on clear, and lasts as long as silicone lubes. It is edible and washes off with water.
- You need a gentle, versatile water-based lube: Choose Boy Butter H2O Formula. It has Vitamin E and Shea Butter, is safe for toys and condoms, and absorbs into skin over time.
- You want to reduce sensitivity or last longer: Choose Boy Butter Comfort Cream Desensitizing Formula. The 5% Benzocaine provides a numbing effect. Use sparingly to find your comfort level. Start with a pea-sized amount and wait a minute before adding more.
- You want a warming sensation: Choose Boy Butter Warming Formula. It is water-based with organic coconut oil and a gentle warming ingredient. It is latex-safe, toy-safe, and washable.
Product facts at a glance
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Lube Tube ~ Boy Butter H2O Formula 6 oz: Boy Butter H2O is a water-based cream with Vitamin E and Shea Butter; it is toy safe, latex safe, and edible. This is the most versatile formula for sensitive skin, silicone toys, and partners who want a gentle, washable lube.
Lube Tube ~ Boy Butter H2O Formula 6 oz
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Boy Butter Comfort Cream Desensitizing Formula 6 oz: Boy Butter Comfort Cream Desensitizing Formula contains 5% Benzocaine to help manage premature ejaculation or increase comfort during penetration. If you need to last longer or reduce sensitivity, this formula provides a controlled numbing effect without switching to a silicone lube.
Boy Butter Comfort Cream Desensitizing Formula 6 oz
Which formula fits you?
Best for
- Everyday use with toys or condoms: H2O Formula
- Natural oil feel and longevity: Original Formula
- Managing premature ejaculation or penetration discomfort: Desensitizing Formula
- Adding a warm sensation to play: Warming Formula
Not ideal for
- Silicone toy users who want water-based washability: Original Formula (oil-based) is not compatible with silicone toys
- Those who dislike any numbing sensation: Desensitizing Formula contains Benzocaine




