Quick answer

The Nexus Dilator Set gives you three graduated sizes in one kit, making it a practical choice for anyone starting anal training or progressing to larger toys.

Why graduated sizes matter for anal training

Anal muscles need gradual stretching to avoid discomfort or injury. Using a single size too early can cause pain, while jumping too fast may lead to frustration. The three dilators in this set let you start with the smallest (11.5 cm insertable) and move up only when you feel ready.

Each dilator is made from firm yet flexible silicone, which holds its shape during use but still adapts to your body. The curved design also targets the prostate or G-spot, so you get training and pleasure in one tool.

Trade-offs to consider

Because the set includes only three sizes, users who need very fine increments between steps may find the jumps noticeable. If you prefer extremely gradual progression, you might want to supplement with an additional single dilator in between sizes.

The silicone is firm, which provides good control but may feel less forgiving than softer materials. This is a plus for targeted pressure but might not suit those who prefer a very squishy feel.

How to choose your size in the Nexus Dilator Set

  • Start with the smallest dilator: The smallest dilator has an 11.5 cm insertable length. Use plenty of lubricant and insert only as far as comfortable. Hold for 30 seconds before removing.
  • Move to the medium size only when the small feels easy: Once you can insert the smallest dilator without discomfort and hold it for a few minutes, try the medium. If you feel any pain, go back to the small for another session. Never force a larger size. Pain means you need more practice with the current size.
  • Use the largest size for advanced training or G/P-spot stimulation: The largest dilator provides fuller sensation and better curve contact. Use the suction cup base for hands-free play or with a harness for added control.

Product facts

  • Nexus Dilator Set: This set contains 3 curved silicone dilators of various sizes to ease yourself into anal or vaginal play. Start small and work your way up in order to reach your desired sensation. You don't have to guess which size to buy next; the graduated set gives you a clear path from beginner to intermediate without separate purchases.

    Nexus Dilator Set

    Nexus Dilator Set

Who should choose the Nexus Dilator Set

Best for

  • Beginners who want a complete set to progress from small to medium without buying separate toys
  • Users who prefer firm silicone for precise pressure and G/P-spot targeting

Not ideal for

  • Advanced users who need very large diameters beyond what this set offers
  • Anyone who prefers extremely soft, squishy silicone for gentle stretching