Quick answer

Babies lose pacifiers mainly because the shape doesn't fit well or the sucking reflex changes as they grow. Choose a stage-appropriate pacifier with a sleek, ergonomic design that stays in place without blocking breathing.

Why does my baby keep losing the pacifier?

A pacifier that constantly falls out is frustrating for both you and your baby. The most common reasons include an ill-fitting nipple, a design that doesn't stay in place, or your baby's changing oral development. As babies grow, their sucking needs and mouth shape evolve, so what worked at 2 months may not work at 6 months.

Another factor is the pacifier's overall shape. A bulky shield or a nipple that's too short or too long can cause the pacifier to pop out easily. Look for a pacifier with a sleek, contoured shape that follows the natural curve of your baby's face.

When to consider a different pacifier design

Not all pacifiers are created equal. A design that includes a built-in teether can add weight or bulk, which might help some babies keep it in but cause others to push it out. The key is to find a balance between comfort and retention.

If your baby is over 6 months, they may need a stage 2 pacifier designed for older infants with stronger jaws and teeth. Using the wrong stage can lead to frequent losses and frustration.

Diagnosis: Why your baby loses the pacifier and how to fix it

  • Symptom: Pacifier falls out within minutes of being placed in baby's mouth, especially during sleep or when baby is lying down.
  • Likely cause: The pacifier nipple is too short or the shield is too bulky, causing the baby to push it out. Alternatively, the pacifier is the wrong stage for your baby's age. Check if your baby has outgrown the current pacifier stage.
  • Corrective action: Switch to a stage-appropriate pacifier with a sleek, contoured shape. Try the Berry or Breeze Calm 'n Cuddle™ Pacifier, which are designed to stay in place without blocking breathing. If the pacifier still falls out after switching, your baby may not accept that shape. Consider a different brand or design.
  • Stop or choose another option: If after trying a stage-appropriate, ergonomic pacifier your baby still loses it frequently, consult your pediatrician. Some babies simply prefer not to use a pacifier, and that's okay. Respect your baby's preference; not every baby needs a pacifier to self-soothe.

Pacifiers that help stay in place

  • BERRY PACIFIER: The Berry Calm 'n Cuddle™ Pacifier and Teether in ONE features a sleek shape that helps the pacifier stay in baby’s mouth without covering the nose or obstructing breathing. This ergonomic design reduces the chance of the pacifier falling out, especially during sleep.

    BERRY PACIFIER

    BERRY PACIFIER

  • BREEZE PACIFIER: The Breeze Calm 'n Cuddle™ Pacifier and Teether in ONE has a gender-neutral blue color and is available in 2 stages to match your baby's age. Choosing the correct stage ensures a proper fit, which helps keep the pacifier in your baby's mouth longer.

    BREEZE PACIFIER

    BREEZE PACIFIER