Quick Answer
To find panties and thongs that fit, measure your waist and hips with a soft tape measure, then compare those numbers to the brand's size chart. For Fleur du Mal, sizes typically align with US dress sizes, but always check the specific product's size guide because fabric stretch and cut vary.
Why Measuring Matters for Panties and Thongs
Unlike bras, panties and thongs rely on hip and waist measurements rather than band and cup size. A well-fitted pair should sit comfortably without digging in or slipping down, and the fabric should lie smooth under clothing. Measuring correctly helps you avoid the frustration of ordering the wrong size, especially online where you can't try before you buy.
Fabric composition also plays a role. For example, a cotton poplin V-string has less stretch than a silk-blend cheeky, so the same size may feel different across styles. Always consider the fabric's give when choosing between your usual size and a size up or down.
What You Need to Measure
Grab a soft, flexible tape measure—the kind used for sewing. If you don't have one, use a piece of string and a ruler. Wear minimal clothing or underwear that doesn't compress your natural shape. Stand straight with your feet together and breathe normally. Avoid measuring over bulky fabrics or after a large meal, as that can skew the numbers.
Step-by-Step Measuring Guide
- Measure Your Waist: Wrap the tape measure around the narrowest part of your waist, usually about an inch above your belly button. Keep the tape snug but not tight, and make sure it's level all the way around. Breathe out naturally and take the measurement. Checkpoint: The tape should not pinch or leave marks. If it does, loosen slightly and re-measure.
- Measure Your Hips: Stand with your feet together and wrap the tape around the fullest part of your hips and buttocks. This is typically about 7-8 inches below your waist. Keep the tape parallel to the floor and snug against your skin without compressing it. Common mistake: Measuring too high or too low. Double-check that the tape is at the widest point.
- Compare to the Size Chart: Use your hip measurement as the primary guide for panties and thongs, since waistbands often sit below the natural waist. Refer to the brand's size chart—for Fleur du Mal, sizes correspond to US dress sizes. If your hip measurement falls between sizes, consider the fabric: stretchy mesh or silk blends allow more flexibility, while non-stretch cotton may require sizing up. Checkpoint: If you're between sizes, size up for cotton poplin and down for stretchy mesh styles.
How Fleur du Mal Styles Fit
- Hampton Poplin V-String: Our Hampton Poplin V-String, cut from lightweight cotton poplin with lace appliqué at front and bow detail at back. Adjustable side straps. The adjustable side straps let you fine-tune the fit, which is handy if you're between sizes. Cotton poplin has minimal stretch, so accurate hip measurement is key.
- Harper Embroidery V-String: Our Harper Embroidery V-String, with stunning floral embroidery on sheer tulle. Features adjustable silk side straps and strappy back. Silk side straps add a touch of luxury and adjust for a custom fit. The sheer tulle has some give, but the embroidery is less stretchy, so follow the size chart closely.
- Rose & Vine Cheeky: Our Rose & Vine Embroidery Cheeky, featuring custom rose embroidery with Fleur logo script and rosette bow detail. Flirty scalloped legline and sheer mesh back. The scalloped legline and mesh back offer a comfortable, flexible fit. Cheekies provide more coverage than a thong, but the embroidered areas are less elastic, so consider sizing up if you prefer a looser feel.







