Quick answer

Start with a lightweight kegel ball, insert it like a tampon, and hold it in place with gentle pelvic floor contractions. Progress to heavier weights and longer wear as your strength improves.

Why start with kegel balls?

Kegel balls add resistance to your pelvic floor exercises, making each contraction more effective than doing them without a device. They provide sensory feedback so you know you're engaging the right muscles, and they help you progress from beginner to advanced levels safely.

Choosing the right weight

Beginners should start with the lightest weight that still provides feedback. The Kegerator set includes three balls of increasing weight, letting you progress gradually. Weight For It offers interchangeable weights in a duo, so you can mix and match as you get stronger. If a ball feels too heavy or slips out, go lighter until you build endurance.

Step-by-step guide to using kegel balls

  1. Prepare the ball and yourself: Wash your hands and the kegel ball with warm water and mild soap. Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to the ball and your vaginal opening for comfortable insertion. Always use lubricant even if the ball feels smooth—it prevents friction and makes removal easier.
  2. Insert the ball: Find a comfortable position (sitting on the toilet, squatting, or lying down). Gently push the ball into your vagina as you would a tampon, angling slightly toward your tailbone. Leave the retrieval cord or loop outside your body for easy removal. If you feel discomfort, stop and try a smaller size or more lubricant. Never force insertion.
  3. Engage your pelvic floor: Once inserted, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles as if stopping urine flow. Hold the contraction for 3–5 seconds, then relax for the same amount of time. Repeat 10 times. The ball should lift slightly during the squeeze. Don't hold your breath—breathe normally. If the ball slips out, you may need a lighter weight or more practice with the contraction.
  4. Practice daily and increase duration: Start with 5–10 minutes of exercises once a day. As you get comfortable, increase to 15–20 minutes. You can also wear the ball during daily activities (like walking or household chores) to maintain passive engagement. If you feel sore or fatigued, take a rest day. Overworking can strain the pelvic floor.
  5. Remove and clean: Gently pull the retrieval cord or loop to remove the ball. Wash it immediately with warm water and mild soap, then dry and store it in a clean, dry place. Do not use harsh chemicals or boil silicone toys. Never leave the ball inserted for more than 2–3 hours at a time to avoid irritation or infection.

Products mentioned in this guide

  • The Kegerator : Vibrant Pink: The Kegerator is a trio of silky-smooth kegel balls made from premium, body-safe silicone, designed for progressive training. Having three different weights in one set lets you start light and increase resistance without buying separate products.

    The Kegerator : Vibrant Pink

    The Kegerator : Vibrant Pink

  • Weight For It : Metallic Mix: Weight For It is a duo of weighted balls with interchangeable weights that you can mix and match. Interchangeable weights give you the flexibility to customize resistance as your pelvic floor strength improves.

    Weight For It : Metallic Mix

    Weight For It : Metallic Mix